A couple with their child. Photo: ISTCOK
Sometimes a child becomes much more attached to one parent, preferring his mother or father. If this is the case in your family, don’t panic. There are solutions developed by the experts to help you deal with the situation.
For Kristin Gallant, Coach parentalit is absolutely necessary for parents to establish a routine and ensure that it is respected.
For example, “If we let the child dictate who gives him food, this can disturb him emotionally” reveals the specialist. When your child shows a preference for a particular parent, the best way to respond is to “go about it methodically.”
Take turns feeding your child. Make him understand that the time spent with him is “precious” for both of you.
While being firm, you need to show empathy, says Deena Margolin, Child Psychologist. Show the child that you understand, for example, that she wants mom to give her food today. Explain to him that today is Dad’s turn and that you can’t wait to take care of him tomorrow as well.
“The more you respect this framework with love, but with firmness, the quicker the new routine will settle in” explains Deena Margolin.
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